Procedures to be Islam (Muslim convert)
METHOD IN ISLAM
Indeed ways / methods of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi Wasallam in calling people to Islam are infidels:
Invite them to testify that there is no god but Allah haq "and that Muhammad is the Messenger / Messenger of God;(“Asyhadu an-Laa Ilaaha Illallah wa Asyhadu an-Na Muhammadarrosuululloh.”) Among the hadith which states it is a hadith narrated by Imam Bukhari and Muslim from Ibn 'Abbas radhiallahu' anhuma that the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi Wasallam when Mu'az sent to Yemen, he said to him: "Look, you come to a the People of the Book, then let the first you do is invite them to testify that there is no god but the God of truth." And in another narration: "... until they tawheed to Allah;
If they respond well, he invited them to the other based on Islamic law and considerations of urgency sikonnya. If they mena'atimu in that, then tell them that Allah has made obligatory for them five prayers in every day time overnight, if they mena'atimu in that, then tell them that Allah has obliged them to pay zakat taken from the rich among them to be returned / given to needy people among them, if they mena'ati it, then shun / beware the treasures they most treasure and pride and fear the prayers of people who dizhalimi because there is no hijab / protector between prayer and God ".
And them again is another hadith narrated by Imam Bukhari and Muslim from Sahl ibn Sa'd as-Saidi, that the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi Wasallam said to' Ali radhiallahu 'anhu when he would give him the banner at the battle of Khaibar: "Do it slowly until you go to the field to face them, then invite them to Islam and notify them of God that must be right above them. sake of Allah! indeed, Allah give guidance on hand a course is better for you than red camels (the most precious and valuable highest for the Arabs at that time.) In another narration: ".. then invite them to testify that there is no god but Allah and that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah".
Purification
The legal scholars disagree about the shower for the Gentiles who converted to Islam (in some opinions-Desc):
(I) It is mandatory: it is the opinion of Imam Malik, Ahmad and Abu Tsaur-rahimahumullah-; based on the hadeeth narrated by Abu Dawud and an-Nasai of Qays ibn 'Aasim-radhiallahu' anhu-he said: "I have come to The Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi Wasallam to convert to Islam, then he told me to bath water mixed with lote leaves ". So, here is the command indicates an obligation.
(Ii) It is sunnah, except when it has happened to him jinabah (which requires junub bath) when the polytheists period then obliged him to take a bath: this is the opinion of Imam Shafi'i and some followers of the Hanbali school.
(Iii) It is not mandatory at all under any circumstances, even the bathroom disyari'atkan him is based on the hadith and other hadiths convey the same: this is the opinion of Imam Abu Hanifa. As for the issue of circumcision / circumcision, then it is obligatory for men and is an honor for women (who did it), but if the invitation to those who want to convert to Islam for circumcision was put on hold for some time to steady himself in Islam and have felt peace / quiet then it was a good run from him, because menyutuhnya immediately feared the circumcision was actually Islam. So based on this, what you (the questioner) told to do by a married couple that while Islam is true.
METHOD IN ISLAM
Indeed ways / methods of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi Wasallam in calling people to Islam are infidels:
Invite them to testify that there is no god but Allah haq "and that Muhammad is the Messenger / Messenger of God;(“Asyhadu an-Laa Ilaaha Illallah wa Asyhadu an-Na Muhammadarrosuululloh.”) Among the hadith which states it is a hadith narrated by Imam Bukhari and Muslim from Ibn 'Abbas radhiallahu' anhuma that the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi Wasallam when Mu'az sent to Yemen, he said to him: "Look, you come to a the People of the Book, then let the first you do is invite them to testify that there is no god but the God of truth." And in another narration: "... until they tawheed to Allah;
If they respond well, he invited them to the other based on Islamic law and considerations of urgency sikonnya. If they mena'atimu in that, then tell them that Allah has made obligatory for them five prayers in every day time overnight, if they mena'atimu in that, then tell them that Allah has obliged them to pay zakat taken from the rich among them to be returned / given to needy people among them, if they mena'ati it, then shun / beware the treasures they most treasure and pride and fear the prayers of people who dizhalimi because there is no hijab / protector between prayer and God ".
And them again is another hadith narrated by Imam Bukhari and Muslim from Sahl ibn Sa'd as-Saidi, that the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi Wasallam said to' Ali radhiallahu 'anhu when he would give him the banner at the battle of Khaibar: "Do it slowly until you go to the field to face them, then invite them to Islam and notify them of God that must be right above them. sake of Allah! indeed, Allah give guidance on hand a course is better for you than red camels (the most precious and valuable highest for the Arabs at that time.) In another narration: ".. then invite them to testify that there is no god but Allah and that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah".
Purification
The legal scholars disagree about the shower for the Gentiles who converted to Islam (in some opinions-Desc):
(I) It is mandatory: it is the opinion of Imam Malik, Ahmad and Abu Tsaur-rahimahumullah-; based on the hadeeth narrated by Abu Dawud and an-Nasai of Qays ibn 'Aasim-radhiallahu' anhu-he said: "I have come to The Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi Wasallam to convert to Islam, then he told me to bath water mixed with lote leaves ". So, here is the command indicates an obligation.
(Ii) It is sunnah, except when it has happened to him jinabah (which requires junub bath) when the polytheists period then obliged him to take a bath: this is the opinion of Imam Shafi'i and some followers of the Hanbali school.
(Iii) It is not mandatory at all under any circumstances, even the bathroom disyari'atkan him is based on the hadith and other hadiths convey the same: this is the opinion of Imam Abu Hanifa. As for the issue of circumcision / circumcision, then it is obligatory for men and is an honor for women (who did it), but if the invitation to those who want to convert to Islam for circumcision was put on hold for some time to steady himself in Islam and have felt peace / quiet then it was a good run from him, because menyutuhnya immediately feared the circumcision was actually Islam. So based on this, what you (the questioner) told to do by a married couple that while Islam is true.